Prep your veggies and sauce: Slice the cabbage, shred the carrots, and dice the onion. In a small bowl, mix soy sauce, rice vinegar, sesame oil, and sriracha (if using).
Set aside.
Brown the meat: Heat the neutral oil in a large skillet over medium-high. Add the ground meat, season with a pinch of salt and pepper, and cook, breaking it up, until browned and no longer pink, 5–7 minutes. Drain excess fat if needed.
Flavor base: Add onion, garlic, and ginger to the skillet.
Cook 1–2 minutes until fragrant. Don’t let the garlic burn.
Add cabbage and carrots: Toss in the cabbage and carrots. Stir-fry 4–6 minutes until tender-crisp.
You want some bite left in the veggies.
Make a well and scramble: Push everything to the edges of the pan, creating a clear space in the center. Pour in the beaten eggs and scramble until just set, 1–2 minutes, then fold into the meat and veggies.
Sauce it up: Pour the sauce over the mixture. Stir to coat evenly and cook 1–2 minutes more.
Taste and adjust with more soy sauce, vinegar, or heat as needed.
Finish and serve: Remove from heat. Stir in most of the green onions, then garnish with the rest and sesame seeds. Serve with lime wedges if you like a bright finish.